
Merry Christmas! Issallahmu Allahkoum!
That’s mixing religions, but it means “may peace be upon you.” That is the standard greeting in the Muslim world which takes the place of “hello” and I think in this season it is especially appropriate. Being out of my culture, I am getting an interesting perspective of Christmas. It’s safe to say that none of the commercialism of Christmas exists here; the only people who are not Muslim are the foreigners. As such, I have had not only the time to reflect on Christmas and the year but also have been able to do that without the usual distractions. It has also been the hardest time of year to be away from home. If there is any holiday that is about family, friends, and being together it is Christmas. Fortunately, I have plenty of happy memories of family and friends that keep you all close to me even though you may be far away. After all, it’s the sharing of memories that makes having friends and family so pleasant.
Reflecting as I am at this time, I realize that I often do not pay much attention to my memories. Often I live focused on the future and try to focus on the present but mostly forget the past. I think a better way to live is to treat all parts equally. Remembering your past reminds you what is important enough to be worth remembering, and helps to turn your attention to what really brings you happiness.
When I remember the events of this past year I find plenty of happiness. 2008 started with the end of my undergraduate days and what was my most enjoyable year at college. Thank you to my roommates in TH 48 and all of my friends at Clarkson for that. “The thesis” also figures prominently in my memories and fortunately ends up being a happy one. From my most serious academic challenge I launched into my most serious life challenge. Having been officially in the Peace Corps for four months now, I finally feel like I am settled in. I still do not understand everything people say to me, nor do they understand everything that I say, but I feel like I have hit a rhythm, and settled on a way of life that will serve me for the next year and a half. It is strange to think that almost a quarter of my service here is completed, I feel like I have done so little. Fortunately my memories reassure me otherwise.
Though I have done much, I have learned far more. Some are lessons about myself, life, and culture that are immediately apparent, like the real value of having a stable and accountable democracy or how close connections to those around you are more valuable than any sum of money, others are more subtle and I feel will only be fully revealed when I return to the States. However, one that I would particularly like to share given the season is that while different peoples are more alike than we generally imagine, there are some cultural differences that do not translate no matter how hard you try. I encounter this on a daily basis and my reaction is often frustration coupled with anger that is unjustified and unhelpful. If peace is to exist on earth, we need to work to accept that there are differences across cultures that cannot be properly understood and that we need to fight the tendency to hate what we do not understand. Only then can true Christmas spirit of fraternity and sorority across the world exist.
Since I can not wish you all a merry Christmas in the usual present way, I am having a joyous holiday season with the warm memories you have left me. My Christmas wishes are of course peace on earth, particularly between cultures that do not understand each other, but also that you pay a tribute to your past and take some time to remember the good events and people that have made up your life.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Years from